I read some notes on a guy, whose concerned doctor had said, Mr “I’ve hit the red button”, was angered by a particular incident. It involved being at a swimming bath and getting angry about not having lanes. I don’t know much about that, but I think they italian’s call it “just tell the jerk to go home” syndrome. People do act up, on little issues, but we do know our boundaries – I have that belief. He must have felt a jerk at some stage, so everything is okay…right?
I get angry and regret it. Anger happens. We get pissed off.
However – just a question, do some people get angry and don’t regret it? If thats the case, then I’m wrong. I don’t know the answer. I give up…for now.
I argue with my partner, usually because we both misunderstand one another. We live with it and hope the other one will figure it out somehow. Its always left in the air – we argue, nothing gets resolved and we’re okay either overnight or in a few hours…whatever cycle you call that.
I wanted to be able to say, I bite my tongue. Sometimes you snap. I think for me anyhow, anger is born out of a frustration. Men call it hysterical.
I need to think about the torrent of emotion that it pours out of you, its very out there. Your ability to say things is very pronounced. Almost as if this gush of words is an mental explosion, of the unresolved pig sty of frustration, Words Rattle out like a empty machine gun. Awful metaphor, but the onslaught of subjecting people to that type of “energy” must make a person feel shite. Its not nice being shouted at or moaned at etc etc..
Must be about feeling shit about yourself again….
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